It is the season for giving thanks and it is thanks that I will give. First and foremost I am thankful for the Head and Neck ENT/Oncology Team at MD Anderson for skillfully
removing the tumor from Kevin’s skull base. It was a tedious procedure that lasted over nine hours. I am so thankful that the first step in his journey is behind him. Although the tumor ended up being more virulent than we had anticipated, it is a huge victory that it had not invaded the brain! This type of cancer is unpredictable and wily and that has my hackles up a little, but I am going to take one victory at a time.
Once the surgery team found a bed long enough to accommodate him, (insert, “we are going to need a bigger bed” here) the surgery went well. When we were able to see him in Recovery, we were amazed at how good he looked. He had some issues with his heart
rate being too rapid, but eventually he was moved to his room and that is when things got not so fun for him. The pain and nausea hit him hard and because of the bones they removed and the grafting they did in his sinuses, the main focus of his hospital stay was for him to remain as still as possible to avoid a Cerebral Spinal Fluid leak. No standing, lying flat or higher than 30 degrees, no drinking through a straw, no standing, no bending, no straining at all and it was obvious he was going to be sick to his stomach. Long story short, I showed my ass (just a little) about him not getting something for nausea and his pain, he got sick, he didn’t bust a leak and I didn’t hurt anyone. He did have a horrible, terrible, painful, fitful, night.
With the new dawn, he seemed to feel a lot better. He rested off and on and was way more of a trooper than I would have been if I was tethered to the bed. His main complaint was the nasty knots and open areas on his skull where they bolted his head in a vice to keep it from moving during surgery. He had a pretty uneventful albeit uncomfortable day. The night once again brought new adventures of pain and the new sensation of him experiencing extreme vertigo when he tried to close his eyes to rest. He
had another brutal and exhausting night. I am not going to lie; being the pony companion to this steed on no sleep was wearing me down as well. He met the new day today and was allowed to walk to the bathroom and sit up in the chair for a while. He rested a little and Riley and Sophi worked a puzzle and ordered him lunch and supper. Mom, Ron, and Kim worked on logistics of travel plans. I helped him ditch the hospital gown and got him into some comfy clothes. It was a pretty good day.
This evening when they started to give him his antibiotic in his IV he told me it made him feel kind of sick. A new night shift crew just came on and I may or may not have trumped up his nausea complaints and Phenergan was delivered IV and he is currently out like a light. I think this is the most consecutive rest he has had and I might get a couple of winks in as well (win-win). The doctor has postponed our departure from Houston from Friday to Sunday, but we are looking forward to coming home!
In my extended state of exhaustion I have managed to surf the entire spectrum of emotions these past few days. There have been moments of joy, elation, relief which fluctuate with fear, anxiety, anger, frustration and immense heartbreak. Trying not to crumble under the weight of bearing witness to his pain, fear and frustration has left my heart weary and my faith wobbly. Watching my children struggle to tamp down their heartbreak and be brave for their daddy sometimes hits me like a swift kick to the gut. But at the end of the day, we have so much hope for the future. We know that there are literally thousands of people praying for his healing. We have an entire community rallying behind this fight and paving the way for us to get him the very best care possible. We have so very much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving.
As I sit here tonight and reflect on everything that has brought us to this moment, I sometimes feel like Peter after he called out into the storm to Jesus, “Let me come to you,” and Jesus says, “Come on, Peter, I’ve got this.” I have faith to step out of the boat and trust Jesus to protect me in this storm, but then I look around at the wind, the waves, the clouds, the rain, and hail and I start to sink and it feels like I am drowning. Me of little faith, sinking like the cinder block I am. Without fail, I am reminded to focus on my faith and not the storm. Those reminders have come in the form of instant messages, text messages, and hugs from my family, a song someone sends me and one very amazing email that I just happened to open in the darkest part of my night (thank you, Meg Reiner). Thank you all for meeting our needs sometimes before we even realize what those needs are going to be. Thank you all for carrying us on this journey, standing in the gap, having faith when ours falters, and most of all, for loving us. We are truly and humbly thankful.
Cancer better find a bigger boat, because we are here for the long haul!
Let him know Jim Frago (the cop and preacher). Is praying.
I am praying for his healing. You might not see it— but it is a blessing that you are able to share God’s will in your life and have others see your faith through all of this. He is with you– carrying you, every step of the way. Happy Thanksgiving- you will be in our prayers today.
Thank you, Sandra! Have a blessed Thanksgiving!❤️❤️
Just know the Sechrest family is praying for you this Thanksgiving Day and will continue to lift your family up to the mighty Physician for healing!
Thank you! We have so much to be Thankful for today! Have a blessed Thanksgiving!❤️
I don’t think this big ass thing called Cancer knew what it was up against….
My first thought when I heard this news was, “Karri will kick your ass”!
You’re family will draw strength, faith, and hope for a better tomorrow from
you and our Most awesome God. Keep your faith strong, hope high, and
rest when you can. Remember that God is already on this and your prayer
community is so very strong.
Prayers for healing, rest, and much love on this Thanksgiving Day….
Thank you so much! We are beyond blessed on this Thanksgiving Day for such a loving and supportive community! Love and Blessings to you!❤️❤️
Happy Thanksgiving! Continued prayers for Kevin and You and your Family!!! Please tell Sophie that Britney and I are thinking of her and praying for her Daddy. 💞
Thank you! I will tell her! Happy Thanksgiving❤️❤️
Prayers for you all for continued healing and strength of faith! Kevin is lucky to have such a strong warrior advocating for him. Continuing to pray from FBC DeLassus
We have appreciated receiving the signed prayer commitments from your church! Thank you !!!❤️
To all of you who are in Anderson–what fantastic news you shared. I can well imagine the angst you’re going through! Take each 24 hours and remember that this day will pass. Know that God doesn’t give us more than we can handle and even when it’s bleak, let your faith and love of Christ whis carrying you across the sands of pain, nausea, etc., let it go and let God carry you–you are receiving many heartfelt prayers and God listens to every prayer. God bless you! He’s in control but he listens to every plea for complete recovery! 🙏❤️
Many initial prayers have been answered positively! Prayers are still needed for: Kevin, you, Riley, Evan and Sofi plus all the other relatives! I know that prayers are still be offered. These are extremely trying times. God led you to it and now he will lead you through it! Keep up the faith! Stay strong! You are so blessed to have had God lead Kevin to you and to have a life with him! I cannot say enough good things about him! I do know that he IS one great man! I know that you will give him the BEST care possible. How lucky can Kevin get that he has YOU! God bless you.
Thank you for your prayers and words of encouragement. I hope you and yours had a blessed Thanksgiving. We are so thankful to have so many wonderful people praying for him and supporting him through all of this. Thank you!
Sending prayers for Kevin and your whole family!
Thank you, sweet lady! ❤️💜